Hello, Allan
Tess: Today is about focus, not chaos. Hit your protein, finish the quote, and don't start another business before lunch.
Tess: Cold + windy. Train indoors, layer up for school run.
- Weigh-in06:50
- Water with lemon06:55
- 30g protein breakfast07:10
- Read Top 3 priorities07:25
- 10 min sunlight + walk07:40
- Cold shower08:00
Scores
Top 3 priorities
Streaks
Behind target. Block 19:00–21:00 Thursday for family dinner.
Family goals
Raise Theo to be curious, kind, brave and unafraid of the world — and make sure he remembers we built him up together.
- ExperienceTheo & dad bike ride — Deeside WayMe + Theo · Sun · AM
- BondBuild a Lego set together — no rushingMe + Theo · Fri · 18:30
- LearnTeach Theo to crack & fry an eggMe + Theo · Sat · breakfast
- RitualBedtime story — 2 chapters, no skippingTheo's room · Daily · 19:30
- BondWrestle & tickle session before bathMe + Theo · Tue
- Money is a tool, not a masterShow Theo how £5/week in his jar grows. Let him pick something to save for.
- Read every nightCurrently reading to Theo: 'The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse'.
- How to fix thingsSaturday: teach Theo to use a screwdriver and tighten his bike seat.
- Other cultures & foodCook one new country with Theo each fortnight — this week: Thai green curry.
- Nature literacyOn every walk, ask Theo to name 3 birds and 3 trees.
- Emotional honesty'Rose, thorn, bud' with Theo at dinner — best part, hardest part, what he's excited for.
- How to lose wellPlay games where I don't let him win — then talk about how it felt.
- "Theo, you are loved exactly as you are."
- "Theo is curious, kind and brave."
- "Mistakes are how Theo learns — never how he shrinks."
- "I will always have time for Theo, even when I'm busy."
- "Theo is watching how I handle hard things. Show him."
- TodayTheo rode a bike with stabilisers for the first time — beaming the whole way.
- TodaySent his balance bike down a big ramp — zero fear, full send.
- TodayHelped dad cook breakfast — cracked the eggs himself (mostly in the bowl).
- TodayDrove his go-kart like he owned the place.
Finding her
Meet a woman whose life is pointed the same direction as mine — family, growth, adventure, building real things. Someone who wants me for who I am, not measured against anyone else. No comparisons, no scorecards, no auditioning for a version of me that doesn't exist. She has her own mission, her own standards, and the warmth to share a life that's already full. Walking the same way, not chasing the same thing.
- Kind in small moments, not just big ones
- Curious — wants to learn, travel, try new food
- Emotionally honest, no games
- Driven by her own life, not mine
- Laughs easily — especially at herself
- Great with Theo, without trying too hard
- Healthy body, healthy mind
- Be in places real people are (gym floor, coffee shop, Padel session with Shaun & Danny) — eyes up, phone away
- Open one dating app, swipe with intention for 10 mins — no doomscroll
- Say yes to one social thing you'd normally skip
- Reply within 24h to anyone interesting — no game-playing
- Book the haircut + new shirt
- "I am a man worth knowing. The right woman will see it without me performing."
- "I don't need a partner to be whole — I want one to share the joy with."
- "When I meet her, I will enjoy her for who she is, not who I hoped she'd be."
- "I will be present, curious, and slow to judge."
- "Love is built in small daily moments, not grand gestures."
- ·Listen more than I talk — ask the second and third question.
- ·Notice what she loves and remember it.
- ·Don't try to fix her. Just be with her.
- ·Tell her what I appreciate — out loud, not in my head.
- ·Let her see Theo only when I'm sure she's good for him.

- FamilySlow breakfast with Theo08:00
- FamilyPark + scooter session10:00
- HealthLunch + macros log12:00
- MoneyFBA sprint — Evil Genius Industries (1hr cap)13:00
- FamilyTheo project — build / make something14:30
- RecoveryMobility + magnesium19:30
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